Came across this article which was quite fascinating as I had similar thoughts about our slave owning ancestors.
A few years back, when I first met some of my African American linked descendants, I was excited and enthusiastic, ready to embrace them warmly. They opened their arms to me, and the renewal of our family connection has remained a positive part of our lives. For a while, I assumed that every African American with whom I had a family connection would be as glad to meet me as I would be to meet them. Fortunately, one of my linked cousins has kindly and frankly made it clear that she does not want to be hugged and called cousin by every new white relative she discovers in her family history research. I believe that she wants the warmth and friendship to grow out of time-tested relationship and candid dialogue. ……….Read the complete article here
I happen to stumble across your blog and found it very interesting.
I live with maternal my grandma and Great grandmas who’s Maiden Names are Gittens and were born in St Phillips. I appreciate the research you’ve done for the family History as I’ve also been intrigued as I wasn’t told much about the past.
On this side of my family I’m the second Gen Born in the UK so this gives me a lot of knowledge. (I still have my mums Dads side whos Jamaican and my Father who was born in Grenada to research)
Would love to get in touch to learn more